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Who are we?

Clay the Wifebeater was bom from over 20 years of frustration over the ridiculous treatment from law enforcement, courts, clergy and blood family. One should not have to beg for safety in one's own home or prove to be a worthy victim in order to receive help. The term "wife-beater" has two origin stories, neither of them pleasant.

The most relevant to our time involves the 1947 arrest of James Hartford Jr. in Detroit after beating his wife to death in their home. The picture of him in a blood stained undershirt gathered nationwide attention to an issue as old as marriage itself. Who is clay? It doesn't matter, just a loser who kept beating his wife. It could be John or Bob but I don't play so I chose clay.

EITHER way I am here to slay a dragon that walks amongst you. Are you crying That's not fair, women are choosing bears?" Look in the mirror, the problem is you. Living with an unsafe man is too big of a chore, begging for my safety has become a bore. Taking my future in my hands, let's spread a message through the lands!

Our safety is a treasure through and through mess with us and pay your due! Buying from this site helps support me as I rebuild my life after being financially, emotionally, and physically abused, in the near future a portion of the proceeds will go to charity. Domestic violence affects many households across all racial, socioeconomic and gender paradigms around the world.

Please check in on your friends and neighbors. If you need help please start by calling The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text BEGIN to 88788. Stay safe, you are worthy and loved.